Intentional Dating

Building a long lasting commitment

Breaking Generational Curses

Welcome to Polished Diamond: "Cosmic Love" Where Intention Meets Legacy

Polished Diamond, a premier member's club designed exclusively for Black singles aged 40 and above who are ready to transition from casual dating to intentional partnership. We believe that at this stage of life, your time is your most precious asset, and your desire for a lifelong commitment deserves a community that shares your standard of excellence.

We exist to illuminate the enduring power of Black Love. We stand as a beacon of truth.

Our mission is to restore the hope and trust that are the birthright of our culture, proving that the bond of marriage is a divine architecture—one that is written in the stars.What We Believe

• Love is Power: It is the engine of our progress and the shield of our community.

• Marriage is Legacy: A committed union is a gift to the future, providing a stable foundation for our dreams to take root.

• Trust is Sacred: Rebuilding the bridges of vulnerability is the first step toward collective healing.

We are more than a social membership club; we are a movement dedicated to healing and transformation. Polished Diamond is specifically committed to helping our members identify and break free from generational curses. We provide a supportive environment where you can:

• Heal the Past: Engage in meaningful dialogue about family patterns and emotional wellness.

• Redefine the Present: Cultivate healthy relationship habits that honor your worth.

• Secure the Future: Build "Generational Wealth" in spirit, love, and legacy for the descendants who follow.

Why "Polished Diamond"?

A diamond begins under immense pressure, hidden in the earth. Through time, refinement, and careful craftsmanship, it emerges as a brilliant, unbreakable gem. Like the diamond, your life experiences have shaped you. You are no longer in the rough—you are polished, resilient, and ready to shine alongside a partner who recognizes your true brilliance.

"Legacy is not just what you leave behind, but who you become along the way."

Polished Diamond is an exclusive social club and matchmaking service specifically designed for individuals aged 40 and over. The club focuses on the concept of "becoming," celebrating the wisdom, life experience, and refinement that come with maturity.

Key Offerings

• Polished Meet N' Mingle: A unisex social club that hosts speed dating events, allowing members to bypass apps and meet potential partners face-to-face.

• Curated Social Events: Beyond dating, the club organizes travel excursions, meditational retreats, and gala events to foster a positive, sophisticated community.  

• Birthday Celebrations: A unique aspect of the club is its focus on honoring member birthdays (especially milestones like 50 and 60) through intimate gatherings and "Diamond Spotlights."

Atmosphere and Values

The club maintains an elegant and sophisticated atmosphere, often requiring formal attire for its major events to reflect the "polished" nature of our members. We prioritize building a community where seasoned individuals feel "seen, honored, and radiant."  

While our primary mission is centered on the 40+ experience, we occasionally welcome "Diamonds-in-Waiting" (those under 40) to specific events to learn from the community’s collective wisdom.

Our Goals

People often assume that matchmaking is about arranging marriages; this really isn’t true. For some people, marriage is definitely the next step in their dating lives, but for many of our clients, this process is simply about learning how to move forward. At Polished Diamond, matchmaking is about helping you break your dating inertia. Our goal is to simply help you move forward and get into the serious, lasting relationship you deserve. If you’re single and don’t want to be, at least one of the following things likely applies to you:

* You’ve never been serious about being in a relationship before

* You’ve consistently dated the wrong type of person… and you know it

* Your life lacks the balance required to feed a romance…you work too much

* You attract the wrong types into your life due to your success

* You seem to be the ‘friend,’ and never the one viewed as marriage potential

* You’ve never developed the skills necessary to woo the opposite sex

* You don’t know how to date after a divorce/long-term relationship

* You are reluctant to trust someone again after an infidelity/betrayal

One of the great advantages of working with a Love Coach | advisor is that we can help avoid the triggers and land mines of your past relationships when providing you with new introductions. We can best position you for success by pairing you with others who understand – or even share – your particular dating difficulties.  Need someone who isn’t threatened by your outgoing nature?  Want someone else who has been married before and “gets it?” Or maybe you’re also looking for someone else who’d like to do everything with someone for the first time? Maybe you need a bit more reassurance than most people? Maybe you’d benefit from being with someone who doesn’t mind that you don’t know how to flirt? We can actually help with all of that. In fact, it’s part of our job.

Your privacy matters, and we take it seriously. Only Polished Diamond employees have access to your information, and your consent is needed before sharing personal contact information with a potential match. From your first consultation to your happily ever after, our services are 100% confidential.